Set goals and find inner peace. Learn how to cope with stress and anxiety. Focus your mind and get your life back on track. All sessions are 50 minutes.
Start feeling close to your partner again with this relationship rejuvenation. Stop arguing in circles, overcome infidelity, and more.
Polyamory and Alternative lifestyles
Ethical non-monogamy starts here. Open your relationship without all the drama. Communicate honestly with your partners and overcome your jealousy.
Let’s talk about sex! Do you have a kink or a fetish you can’t talk about with your partner? Feel like your sex life has gotten stale? This is the service for you.
What is The Process Like?
My program is designed to last for at least four weeks, but every couple’s needs are different. Each “Phase” is broken down in detail the blue section to the right, or below. I will be walking you through a step-by-step program that has been proven to obtain results. The first step is to decide whether or not you would like a free consultation. The consultation is most helpful for couples who have never been to coaching, counseling, or therapy of any kind. The consultation is your opportunity to give me details about the issues you’ve been having and any information that you think I will need to know about your relationship. I will assess whether or not I can help you.
The following weeks will be filled with intense reflection and goal setting. We will be discussing:
– The history of your relationship and what caused the initial breakdown
– Learning how to communicate open and honestly
– Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy
– Getting back on the same team as your partner
If you decide not to use your consultation, the next step is to choose the service or coaching package that would be most appropriate for you. If you are not sure whether or not you would like to commit to the full four weeks you can book each session individually for the lower listed price. You can book using the “contact us” option of this website or call.
The coaching packages are for couples who are at the most critical point in their relationship who can commit to a minimum of four sessions of intense relationship analysis. At the end of the four sessions you will know whether or not your relationship can be healed or if your union should come to an amicable end.
If you don’t do anything to improve your relationship today, how will it get better tomorrow?
Phase 1. Initial Analysis
The first step is the initial relationship analysis. This is where we will talk about the past trauma that your relationship has endured. I want to address the history of your relationship. We will be discussing topics like:
– lack of trust and intimacy
– anxieties or hang-ups about moving forward
– where, when, and how did these issues begin
This is the week that will set the tone for your success as a couple. I will be creating an enviornment where you can communicate about these issues directly. This type of communication and shared emotional vulnerability will instantly boost your confidence in your relationship.
Phase 2. Learn Good Communication Skills
During this week you will be setting goals both as indivduals and as a couple. I want you to discover whether or not there are things in your relationship that are worth saving. What brought the two of you together initially? What parts of your relationship are worth fighting for? If you and your partner have conflicting visions of the future then I will get you back on the same team and show you haw to achieve yourgoals together.
Phase 3. Intimacy
Getting intimate. An in depth look at your sex life and general satisfaction in the bedroom. Sex is a healthy, natural, and important part of a romantic relationship. If you can’t talk about sex with your partner then who can you talk about it with? Asking for what we want and being open about our deires will help us create a stronger bond to our partner and give us more confidence in our daily lives.
Phase 4. Friend or Foe?
Usually by this week couples have started to feel the effects of the program. You will have clarity about whether or not you want to continue a relationship with your partner or if you should dissolve your union. This week is usually the hardest for couples to get through. You will know whether or not you are compatible and if you and your partner are both willing to commit to making the relationship work. If you choose to continue on to phase 5 we will be focusing on actively rebuilding your relationship and implementing prevention methods that will contribute to the longevity and sustainability of your partnership.
Phase 5. Mediation and Free Session
If you and your partner have made it through week four successfully and decided to continue fixing your union then we will be using week 5 to recommit to the relationship with a verbal vow of honesty. We will also be implementing prevention techniques that will help support the health of your relationship longterm. This session will be free!
It’s never pleasant to talk about break-ups but it is important that we are honest with ourselves and with each other. Not every relationship can be saved, and not every relashionship should be saved. Sometimes couples grow apart, and sometimes so much damage has been done that it is healthier for both individuals to start over rather than try to reconcile. If you and your partner decide to end your relationship after week 4, then all I ask is that couples attend this free exit session. We will determine what solidified the end, whether ending the relationship is truly the right choice, and how you will both be moving forward.
What does it take to make a relationship work?
Falling in love is easy, But staying in love is a choice that you have to make every single day. Love alone is not enough to make a relationship work and it’s not going to be enough to get you through my program. You and your partner both have to be willing to do the hard work and be completely honest with yourself and each other. Many times when a couple comes to me it is because they are already at their breaking point.
If that is you please don’t wait to book your appointment. The longer you wait the more damage your relationship could suffer. So often people get stuck in the past and wondering how they ended up where they are now. Relationships are hard and there are bound to be conflicts. There is no shame in needing help. With my help you will have absolute clarity about the future of your relationship.
Ask yourself these questions:
– What reasons do you have to fight for your relationship?
– Where are you headed as individuals?
– Do you want to be right, or do you want to be in this relationship?
– Are you willing to forgive your partner and recommit to making the relationship work?
These are just a few of the questions I will be asking you and your partner to answer as I analyze the health of your relationship. Before you begin my program I will ask you to let go of “how things used to be”. We will not be going backwards. The way your relationship functioned in the past is how you ended up where you are today. We will be transforming your relationship and striving for something healthy, honest, and sustainable. Something better than how things used to be.
Dating, Break-Ups & Cheating
Have you been cheated on by a partner? Are you struggling to forgive them or move on? Cheating is unfortunately all too common in our society. Approximately 1 in 3 married men will cheat while 1 in 5 married women will cheat at some point in their relationship. While these numbers may seem bleak, don’t lose hope just yet. Infidelity does not have to mean the end of a relationship if you don’t want it to be. It is possible to overcome this betrayal and come out as a stronger couple in the end.
Bring an air of mystery, excitement, and intimacy back into your relationship. Cheating is usually the symptom of a larger problem within the relationship. In my program we will get to the cause of the infidelity whether it be boredom, sexual dissatisfaction, or anything else. Learn how to be completely open and honest with your partner to ensure that cheating will never occur again.
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